Have you find your Soul Mate?
We humans are a
social animal with an intelligent thinking brain, feelings which are
both spiritual and physical and a will that lets us perform actions and
take decisions according to our whims, fancies and requirements.
But,
in spite of all our claims of superiority over the animals, the
elements, flora, fauna etc, there are certain areas in which we find
ourselves helpless and inadequate.
One
particular facet of our mortal existence is that we are very possessive
and attach great significance of our worldly possessions and
relationships which we cherish thoroughly.
As
far as material possessions are concerned beautiful, costly and rare
things attract us and we can own them but all the riches of this world
cannot find you a soul mate, a true companion. And, come to think of it,
it does not cost anything to find one; just what has been pre-ordained.
Learned
people call it your spiritual half and declare that it is something
planned and decided prior to our birth; a presence which you can
consider to be closest to your heart, body and spirit or a combination
of these aspects.
But,
your intended soul mate may not be waiting with arms open and a wide
smile, also it’s mandatory that our life partners are our true soul
mates; they might be our Karmic accounts also. During my spiritual
journey I have seen so many couples who are together but they are not
their soul mates.
So,
what are the signs and symptoms of a soul mate? I would say that this
cannot have any prescribed multiple-choice answer. Only time and tide
can be the judge, jury and executioner of this dilemma.
The
relationship is quite straightforward and proceeds smoothly but not
always. Some of these relationships can be utterly tempestuous and full
of varying emotions ranging from disdain to outright loathing and hate.
Let
us not just beat around the bush and analyze objectively the traits of a
real soul mate. We have agreed that soulmates provide happiness, help,
spiritual enhancement, harmony and satisfaction to the other half. They
encourage and support the other in becoming a better and balanced
person.
The
intention is always to augment the strengths and cover for the
weaknesses in your soulmate. The beginnings of a soulmate relationship
are quite confrontationist at times with scorn thrown in for good
measure.
The
general attributes of a true soulmate normally manifest themselves as
honest, straightforward, sincere, mostly offensive and sometimes hurting
with their candidness. Thus, they prove that true friendship never
ruins smoothly.
In the famous words of Jerry McGuire, “They make each other complete.”
You
may harbor a million images of all that is good and compatible but
those fantasies take wings when you find that special soul, who may be
totally different than what you thought was what you wanted.
So,
if you are brave enough to move away from your romance checklist, open
your eyes and your heart to unexpected possibilities, you might just be
one of the lucky ones who find their true soul match. You will suddenly
be hit by a railroad that derails all those fancy, romantic visions that
you had created.
Sometimes
the realization takes decades to come while, in some unfortunate cases,
they just pass by. Unfortunate are those that do not find their
soulmate but much more unfortunate are those who do not realize on time
that here is my soulmate.
Some symptoms that you’ve found your soulmate when:
- You vibrate at the frequency of other person
- You feel comfortable and peaceful with someone,
- You think alike but compromise on disputed issues.
- You miss each other at every occasion of separation.
- You anticipate and intercept the thoughts and actions of the other person.
- The other person’s pain is discernible to you;
- Nothing much needs to be said or communicated.
- You know their faults but accommodate them unconditionally.
- You don’t feel jealous.
- You avoid being unpleasant.
- You are prepared to apologize.
- Being together is the ultimate experience you need.
- You retract from an argument just to please.
- You keep reiterating your love not only by saying it; your actions also confirm your love.
Between
soulmates there is only love, unconditional love, without expecting
anything from your spiritual companion. The purpose of Soul mate
relation is to just give. This is a beautiful relationship that a human
experience in his or her life, provided you should get and recognized
your true soul mate. Almost everyone has a soulmate, whether they know
it or not; or, whether they acknowledge it or not.
Life
becomes more beautiful when you get your divine companion. As I said
earlier it’s not mandatory that your life partner is your soul mate,
soul mates enter in our life in different forms, may be as a friend,
guide, mentor, guru or as a lover. Be open to receive the love from
universe.
“I open my arms
I open my mind
I open myself
I open my body
I open my chakras
I open my spirituality
I open my soul
I open myself completely
To accept Divine Love from Universe”
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